Becoming a surrogate can be an enriching experience. You’re not just carrying a child; you’re helping someone fulfill their dream of becoming a parent. However, it’s a commitment that comes with various legal, medical and emotional responsibilities.
Whether you’re just starting to explore surrogacy or are ready to take the next step, understanding your rights and responsibilities is crucial.
Your rights
You have the right to make informed decisions about your body. No one can force you to become a surrogate or undergo medical procedures or treatments you’re uncomfortable with. In other words, you do not lose your bodily autonomy when you become a surrogate. You still have the final say in medical decisions.
You also have the right to a clear, legally binding surrogacy agreement. This crucial document should outline each party’s responsibilities, compensation (if applicable) and what happens in unexpected situations like pregnancy complications.
Additionally, you have the right to privacy. While the intended parents may want updates, you’re not obligated to share every detail of your personal life. Regular communication is key, but so is setting boundaries.
Your responsibilities
As a surrogate, you’re entrusted with a significant responsibility: taking all reasonable steps to maintain a healthy pregnancy. This means attending all medical appointments, following your doctor’s advice and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
You’re also responsible for communicating openly with the intended parents and the surrogacy agency (if you’re working with one). Providing regular updates about your pregnancy fosters transparency and builds trust while ensuring everyone is on the same page.
Lastly, you’re obligated to adhere to the surrogacy agreement. This includes respecting the intended parents’ reasonable wishes regarding the pregnancy, like agreeing on prenatal testing or delivery preferences.
The importance of legal guidance in the surrogacy journey
Navigating surrogacy can be complex, which is why having qualified assistance through the process is essential. Legal guidance ensures your rights are protected, the surrogacy agreement is fair and potential complications are addressed upfront. This not only safeguards you but also creates a smoother experience for everyone involved.