Surrogacy can be a rewarding experience for both surrogates and intended parents. However, the journey toward building a family through surrogacy can be filled with emotional doubts and insecurity. Having an emotional support system helps alleviate the emotional challenges of surrogacy. Getting that support system is crucial in seeing through the entire process.
The emotional journey
Surrogates offer a fantastic gift but may face emotional challenges. They might feel joy, fulfillment, anxiety or uncertainty. Build a robust support system with family, friends and counselors to help them manage these feelings.
Intended parents often feel hopeful and excited but also stressed and worried. You may concern yourself with the surrogate’s and baby’s health or the legal and medical processes: contact family, friends and mental health experts for comfort and guidance.
Legal support
Minnesota supports surrogacy agreements but does not have specific laws on them. Still, a well-written contract should help formalize the uncertainties and include emotional support provisions. Consider working with surrogacy agencies and lawyers who can safeguard your legal interests and connect you with emotional support services.
Creating your support network
Build a strong support network. Surrogates can join support groups to share experiences with others who understand. Intended parents can connect with other surrogacy parents for insights and support.
Professional counseling can also help. Therapists who specialize in reproductive psychology can provide coping strategies and a safe place to express one’s feelings.
Getting the help you need
Emotional support is critical to a successful surrogacy journey. Create a solid support network and work with knowledgeable professionals to handle emotional challenges and celebrate the joys of this unique path to parenthood.